Lucky Lifestyles will be an Adults-Only (18+) website for

LGBTQ+, Open Relationships, Polyamorous, Swingers, and Kink — in clearly separated communities.

We’re currently inviting a small group of founding members to learn more about what we’re building. Founding members will receive a free six-month membership when we roll out.

Learn What We’re Building (18+)

Lucky Lifestyles: Swingers, LGBTQ+, Polyamory, Kink and Open Relationships

By Kevin Scott December 25, 2025
Lucky Lifestyles: Swingers, LGBTQ+, Polyamory, Kink and Open Relationships
Choose Once. Connect Better.

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What This Article Covers
  • Why choosing the right community matters
  • Why Lucky Lifestyles uses one community per account
  • How to think about your primary lifestyle
  • Common mistakes people make when choosing
  • How this design benefits everyone

One of the most important decisions you make on Lucky Lifestyles happens before you ever create a profile: choosing the right community.

This choice shapes your experience, the people you connect with, and the expectations others have when interacting with you. That is why Lucky Lifestyles treats community selection as a core design feature—not an afterthought.


Why Choosing the Right Community Matters

Different lifestyles have different boundaries, expectations, and communication styles. When those are mixed without structure, misunderstandings happen quickly.

Lucky Lifestyles was built to remove that friction by ensuring everyone starts from the same baseline understanding.

  • Clear intent from the beginning
  • Fewer awkward conversations
  • Better quality connections
  • More respectful interactions

Why Lucky Lifestyles Uses One Community Per Account

Lucky Lifestyles intentionally allows only one primary community per account. This is not a limitation—it is a design decision based on clarity and respect.

Many platforms allow users to check every box and belong to every group at once. In practice, this creates confusion and mismatched expectations.

By choosing one community, you are answering a simple question for everyone else:

“Why are you here right now?”

System Design Principle

When intent is explicit, systems—and communities—work better.


Think in Terms of Your Primary Lifestyle

Many people explore multiple ideas, identities, or interests over time. Lucky Lifestyles does not deny that complexity—but it asks you to choose the community that best represents your primary focus right now.

Ask yourself:

  • Which community best reflects what I am actively seeking?
  • Which group’s discussions and connections matter most to me?
  • Where do I feel most aligned in expectations?

Your answer does not need to be permanent—but it should be honest.


Common Mistakes When Choosing a Community

Choosing incorrectly often leads to frustration, not because the platform failed—but because expectations were misaligned.

Common mistakes include:

  • Choosing the “largest” group instead of the right one
  • Selecting a community based on curiosity rather than intent
  • Assuming overlap means interchangeability
  • Trying to keep options open instead of being clear

Lucky Lifestyles is built to reward clarity, not ambiguity.


What Happens After You Choose

Once you select your community, everything is optimized around that choice:

  • Your discovery experience
  • Who can find you
  • Which discussions you see
  • How others interpret your presence

This creates a more focused, relevant experience for everyone involved.


Respecting Differences Between Communities

One of the core values of Lucky Lifestyles is respect—for people and for lifestyles.

Separate communities are not about exclusion. They exist to acknowledge that different groups operate differently and deserve spaces that fit their needs.

  • No forced overlap
  • No diluted expectations
  • No one-size-fits-all assumptions

Built for Clarity, Not Pressure

Lucky Lifestyles does not rush you into choosing. The platform provides clear descriptions of each community so you can make an informed decision.

The goal is not to push you into a box—but to help you start in the right place.


Start in the Right Community

Lucky Lifestyles is offering a free six-month membership to early supporters. Choose your community thoughtfully and start connecting with people who share your expectations.